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Mmm Mmm Monday Night Post "Bon Appetit" ;-)

Posted on January 24, 2012 at 12:50 AM Comments comments (0)

Oral sex is an amazing way to enjoy your foreplay ventures before gettin' down to the Nitty Gritty. If you notice below with some Fun Facts I stated, many can reach that Special O, just with a little tongue action. Just take a little trip downtown & have a fun with it. A great idea is actually some edible pleasures along with it. Such as your favorite foods you have at home and/or some naughty novelty items ie: Edible Body Paints, Edible Undies & so on & so forth. There are many ways & fun products that can be used. Try It & Have Yourself A Fantastic Feast & Delicious Desert to end your Monday Madness. Bon Appetit ❤❤

Here are some Mmm Mmm products that you might enjoy.

And should you be interested just click on this link for many more:

 http://www.tantusinc.com/?partner=MELB'SLOVELOUNGE

Edible Body Paint, Strawberries & Champagne $12.99 & Edible Chocolate Boby Paint

 

 

The wonderful way to enhance your creative, sexual explorations! Use this chocolate body paint and paint brush to write love poems, draw hearts, flowers, and reveal your artistic side. Tastes exquisite and is non-staining for easy clean up. 3.5 oz

 

Aphrodiasiac Oil Strawberry and Champagne $15.99

 

Sizzling Body Candy $4.99

 

ID Juicy Lube - Pina-Colada, 3.8 oz $15.99

 

Fun Facts For You:

"Many of the ingredients in chocolate are proven to cause arousal similar in effect to sexual foreplay. In fact, some experts believe chocolate may be even more effective than foreplay for sexual arousal."

Source: JoAnn and Erica Orloff. 2001. Dirty Little Secrets: True Tales and Twisted Trivia about Sex. New York, NY: MacMillan Publishing Company, Inc.

"Just a decade ago, only 25% of women reported experiencing orgasm as a result of intercourse. In recent years, this number has risen to about 45%. In contrast, over 80% of women report experiencing orgasm though oral sex"

Source- Kanner, Bernice. 2005. Are You Normal About Sex, Love, and Relationships? La Vergne, TN: Lightning Source, Inc.

"Men give oral sex as much as they receive it.

Contrary to popular wisdom again, men — especially older men — give as much oral sex to women as women give to men. While the difference is greatest in the 20 to 24 year old range (with only 55 percent of men saying they’ve given it in the past year, compared to 74 percent of women), the tables turn as we age. In the 30 to 39 age range, 69 percent of men report having given a woman oral sex, while only 59 percent of women have.

In other age ranges, the differences are far less greater, with only a few percentage points differentiating the two groups.

70 percent of women claimed to have received oral sex from a man in the 20 to 24 age group, but only 55 percent of men admitted to having given oral to a woman. Sixty-two percent of men aged 40 to 49 claimed they received oral, but only 53 percent of women said they gave it."

Source: Dr. John Grohol - CEO and founder of Psych Central

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/10/06/11-surprising-facts-about-americas-sexual-behaviors/

Sexy Lingerie Sundays

Posted on January 23, 2012 at 1:05 AM Comments comments (0)

So I have something special for you to do for everyday of the week. "MelB's Daily To Do's" on my side bar. Today being Sexy Sundays you should surprise your baby with some Sexy Lingerie.

Being in a long term relationship and/or marriage we tend to forget to dress in Sexy Lingerie for our significant others. We get so comfortable & caught up in our daily duties, when we get ready for bed, we're so over the day & so tired, we just throw on our comfy sweats and T's or what not, our partners very rarely see us be Sexy for them. So to end your week that you've had & before you begin the next one. Why not make it a point to have a sexy night & end the week right. Dress in nice lingerie & feel good about yourself. Nothing is more attactive than a woman with confidence. Let him look at you, maybe do a little strip tease, wear some sexy shoes, and have a night filled with passion & intamacy.

The Company Lelo, of which I blogged about earlier on with some great toys, also has nice, good quality Intimate Apparel.

Sussurra™ is LELO’s luxurious line of lingerie and loungewear. This premier collection makes use of silk stripe chiffon, silk satin and silk habutai in the most desirable pieces for women and men. By using only the finest silk fabrics, LELO delivers a truly unique range of items crafted with the highest attention to quality and style.
Visit their site below and see for yourself, treat yourself & him, and feel good in more ways than one.

http:affiliates.lelo.com/jrox.php?id=1083

Have A Super Sexy Sunday

Sensual Massage, You Deserve It

Posted on January 21, 2012 at 11:25 PM Comments comments (0)
With all our daily stresses & worries, we tend to forget & pay attention to what's most important, and that's ourselves & our well being. If we do not take care of ourselves how can we take care of our loved ones. Stress unfortunately does quite a number on us physically & mentally which affects our performance and energy level.  So why not treat yourself & your partner to a way that relaxes you the most. That makes you feel good in so many ways, and helps with many things that are important in our body & soul. Make the effort & take the time to take care of yourself & your partner often & you'll be amazed with the results. Below is a great quote & video by an expert who knows best. After all, you both work hard at living the life you do. You deserve it  :-) "Do you know how to get your lover ??? mind, body and soul, to crave your essence? Well stop thinking, and start learning! The human mind and body are constantly exposed to stress, and as we know stress dulls the mind and senses. It is simply ??? sensory overload and the and mind and body shut down to compensate. By taking the time to envelope my lover's body with amazing sensations I discovered that I could reduce their stress levels (as well as mine!) , lift mood, create a sizzling erotic experience, give incredible pleasure, and induce a state of the deepest relaxation. All while exploring every inch of their body. Within this deep and profound relaxation ??? touch, pleasure, intimacy, seduction and arousal were all increased 10, 20, 50x over. I???m sure you???ll agree with me, that physical and emotional pleasure is a wonderfull conduit to relaxation, great health, glow, vitiality and intimacy.The exploration of new ideas and the expansion of the mind is what makes us grow. New experiences give us the opportunities to add to the quality and depth of our lives." -Maya Silverman http://youtu.be/XyKxEZNGzWM

Attention All Men!! Sexy Gift Giving For Your Special Lady

Posted on December 31, 2011 at 8:00 PM Comments comments (0)

      Ok all the hussle & bussle of Christmas is over. Some made it A Very Merry Sexmas & others brought in the New Year with a Big Bang. Well now that all that is done, what’s next you ask? You guessed it, VDAY!! Yes Boys, it’s that time again. The day, that a lot of you dread and that some are just so scared & worried about what to give & what to do. Fresh out of ideas? Well, fear no more my friends. I’m here to help you out & share with you some secrets and a little helpful advice.

     When it comes to giving your special woman a gift, always remember the old adage “It’s the thought that counts” and yes fellas, it’s oh so true. Just make sure you’re showing her you were on her mind, and all your thoughts were all about her. A great idea is to put her needs first in bed, resulting in a return gift for you. So before you go out and spend an arm & a leg on a gift & strip your wallet on all the expensive hoopla, think about what will be more pleasurable and fulfilling, not just for her, but for you as well. Yes, the traditional Rose bouquets & Heart candy boxes, wine, candles & rose petals are all ok and can go a long way, it’s the super creative gifts that make it that much better & more memorable for that matter.

     Start by trying to find out what her fantasies are. Yes fellas, believe it or not, women have fantasies too. Some are just too shy or embarrassed to admit to them. Just be aware of her subtle hints, trust me, she gives them quite often, in hopes you’re paying attention. So a little help by their, oh so loving man, will open her up in ways you would’ve have never imagined. Think about your fantasies as well, hey you never know, they may be very similar or heck, surprisingly enough, may be exactly the same, or close to. Try talking about yours and that’s your jumpstart my friends. Then combine the two and discover “A Whole New World” 

*Fact: “Fantasies can cause anxiety for people” Los Angeles Sex Therapist Magen Todd, Ph. D., also states “You have to be willing to take that risk. Curiosity is important.”

*My personal advice: Be bold, daring & creative. Use your imagination; let it run wild, so the both of you can be wild together. The element of surprise is always good. Do the unexpected. Learn explore & execute. Men have vivid imaginations when it comes to sex, which should be used to their advantage.

Some fantasies to think about:

• Role Playing

• Blindfolded

• Tied up & Handcuffed

• Full Body Massage

• Playing with Toys

• Using Props ie: Feathers, a soft brush etc.

• Roughness ie: Spanking, thrown against the wall or thrown on bed, rip clothes off

• Being Spoiled ie: “just lay there, it’s all about you”

• Watching Porn together and maybe playing it out

• Sex in Public with the challenge of not getting caught, that idea alone makes it more stimulating & erotic ie: Beach, Park, Elevator, Movie Theatre

• Game Playing ie: Sexy Scavenger Hunt, Erotic Board games, Sexy Dice

• Office Sex

• Multiple Sex Partners at once ie: Swinging, Threesomes, Foursomes & Orgies

    MelB’s Last Piece of Advice: Believe It Boys, Most women think the best gift that their man can give them is an earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasm. The best way to do so, focus must be all on her in bed. Let her know that her orgasm is your main & only mission. Pay very close attention & learn about her needs, what excites her & what makes her feel good. Guess what, she won’t be the only one reaping the rewards. Women are very easy to please, more so than you think. Yes, women love sex too. Shocker, I know. With a little effort & creativity on your part, you will be a master at sexy gift giving in no time. Just remember, VDay is not all that bad & make it your goal to be amazing.

Happy Valentine’s Day Boys